YOUR WEDDING AND BAPTISM

If you live for others, you are close on the way indeed.

The wedding and baptism ceremony strengthens and blesses a special bond between two persons who decide to share their lives, welcomes a child (children) into society and gives a clerical, formal and public framework to consciously carry out and process this important life event.

WEDDING

If you live for others, you are close on the way indeed.

The wedding ceremony strengthens and blesses a special bond between two persons who decide to share their lives and gives a clerical, formal and public framework to consciously carry out and process this important life event. The marriage is based on a deep mutual respect between the spouses, which enables them to strive for a homogeneous partnership. The union forms a harmonic mix of the various strenths and weaknesses. To get married means to create a frame for a shared progress as a couple and as individuals.

Legislation

We are politically and denominationally independent and are subject to the Swiss legislation. Only the civil marriage or a concubinage contract are civilly binding in Switzerland. Please inform yourself in your municipality. Our zen monks and zen nuns give your ceremony a formal and public character and a blessing.

BAPTISM

True person without rank and name.

Through the baptism ceremony the child is being welcomed in society. The baptism helps to build identity and community; it gives this phase of life (entry as a new and minor member into society) a clerical, formal and public frame to consciously carry out and process this important life event. The baptism ceremony is an expression of our gratitude for the child and an inquiry for strength for the way the child has to go and will go. The request for care until adulthood (see confirmation) is directed at the family, the godparents and the society.

Family & Society

What does it mean to be a family,  a godparent and a part of society? All these relationships are based on the acceptance of reciprocal responsibilities in six social relationships. The six types of human relationships are those between parents and children, spouses, teacher and pupil, friends, employer and employee, and religious teacher and his disciples. Through fulfilling one's responsibilities, one can achieve harmony, security and prosperity both within the family and in the society as a whole.

Godparents

The godparents are individuals chosen by the parents to take an interest in the child's upbringing and personal development, and to take care of the child should anything happen to the parents. They act as guarantors of the child’s spiritual upbringing. Godparents are spiritual co-parents.

Procedure
  • We cut a strand of hair which will be given to you with the logos of the heart.
  • The baptismal candidates bow (with accompaniment) respectively in front of family, the godparents and the guests representing the society in order to express the request for care.

PROCEDURE

Since there are no compulsory and complex rituals for the ceremony, we will determine its sequences in accordance with your wishes. For more specific information regarding duration of the ceremony, schedule, additional texts and speeches, we will gladly discuss it with you personally. Please note that the number of participants does not matter.

Templestay

In preparation for the ceremony we recommend a short templestay at the Zen Temple.

Logos from the heart

We will recite the "Logos from the Heart" at the ceremony.

Ritual

To symbolize the transience of life and death, each of those present can burn a pinch of incense at the end of the ceremony.

Location

On Site: Determine the location that is most suitable for you.

OBLATIONS

We suggest a donation of  1200.- CHF or by agreement (without templestay & travel expenses). Every single donation is very welcome and will be diligently used for the  Zen Temple and enables us to provide a place for meditation.

 

If you like to have zen monk Marcel Reding & zen monk Alain Lafon to guide you through the ceremony, the oblation will be 2500.- CHF or by agreement (without templestay & travel expenses).

MASTER OF CEREMONY

Zen Monk Marcel Reding

After ten years of continuous reexamination of the words and actions of the wise and holy Ones in japanese and south-korean zen monasteries, ordained Zen Monk Marcel Reding founded, in mutual reliance with the clergy and laity, the Insopor Zen Academy in Switzerland in 2014.

 

Zen Monk Alain M. Lafon

Zen Monk Alain Lafon

Zen Monk Alain M. Lafon has lived for three years as Digital Nomad with only a backpack. After many years of formal daily Zen practice and an ordination in 2011, he moved into the Shogen Dojo in Zurich and lead the daily meditation as well as retreats. In 2015, he joined the Insopor Zen Academy. Now, he is head monk of the Lambda Zen Temple.

 

CONTACT

If you have any questions, please contact us via email or telephone and we will get back to you as soon as possible. We look forward to hearing from you.

Address

Insopor Zen Academy
Headquarters
Sagenplatz 7
8840 Einsiedeln
Switzerland

Phone: +41 78 408 10 89
E-Mail: eremita@zen-tempel.ch

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